JANET BLOOMFIELD: 5 Reasons Women Love Rape Fantasies.

No matter how you slice it, rape culture allows women to imagine every man is a rapist. Every man wants her. Every man will do the unthinkable just to have her.

Pretty sweet, as far as fantasies go.

I like how she put it in a post linked from here a while back: “Is women’s sexuality profoundly narcissistic? That would explain a lot.”

Stranger rape is central to lust for many, many women.

Why? It’s all about the fantasy of being irresistible. Of controlling men so thoroughly. It’s about being the object of unendurable desire. . . . Rape culture is rape fantasy culture: it’s women imagining themselves to be objects of desire – to all men, all the time, everywhere.

It’s classic narcissism. Women’s lust proceeds from their own internal need to feel special, beautiful, wanted, high status – and not out of a desire to select the best genetic material for offspring.