RELATIONSHIP ADVICE for young men. “The authority figures telling you these things about being ‘nice’ are unwittingly gaslighting you. This is the primary reason you’re having trouble recognizing what you’re seeing. Men, if you get nothing else from this post, GET THIS: You are not crazy. You are not stupid. Your mind is not playing tricks on you. Your conclusions are correct. Girls are NOT attracted to NiceGuys. Girls are attracted to masculine men.”